You tend to be passive, just accept what is given partner and expect him to just know what you want. Firmly taking attitude is also required during lovemaking. Want to know how? Consider these three tips quoted from Your Tango.
1. Master Your Pleasure Alone
Knowing the true state of your body is very important in getting the real sexual pleasure. You can not just rely on a partner, due to experience incredible sex should involve two people. Sex pleasure is your duty; may share them with friends is the best thing you can do.
Find out about what you like, do not like and what they want to. One way to masturbate or touch yourself. After knowing what it touches and which part is a 'point' stimulative, you can say it to the couple that he knew had to 'do anything' to you when making love. Try experimenting with various techniques and sex toys.
2. Thankful & Encourage One Another
The words are simple, such as 'thank you', 'you're great' can increase pleasure sex. Because sexual performance is an area that is sensitive enough for most people. Fear can not satisfy your partner, worried whether the 'action' was great or not so some of the concerns experienced by many people. Thus, by expressing gratitude can greatly help increase confidence couples. And a more enjoyable sexual experience you can get in 'sessions' hot the next.
3. Initiatives
Do not just wait for a couple who took the initiative to try new positions, or stimulation in areas of your body that are sensitive. Silence, not a good solution to avoid boredom in sex. Instead, dare yourself to communicate what you want and not the sex.
For example, if you like the touch of his hand on the clitoris area, express. Give also some ideas on how to improve the quality of sex you know. Do not assume your partner like a psychic or a mind reader who always knows what you want. Communicate with each other, is the key to get sexual satisfaction.